"If God 'answers prayer,' why does so much prayer go unanswered?"
Our starting point takes us back to our fundamental understanding of God, as revealed in the Bible. God is all-knowing, all-loving, and all-powerful. God's answers to prayer are always in accord with His wisdom—the loving use of His knowledge. Christ promises to answer all prayer offered in His "name," that is, according to His will and character (John 14:13-14).
On the other hand, our knowledge is biased and limited, and therefore, lacks sufficient wisdom to understand how, when, and in what way that God will answer (James 4:3). We do get some of this right, but we're not God!
So, when our prayer comes before our Heavenly Father, His response will be one of wisdom. It will be in harmony with His eternal purpose, future outcomes, its effect upon others, and His love for us.
Consider the story in John chapter 11, where Jesus' friend, Lazarus, dies. Word had come earlier that Lazarus was very sick. Jesus was asked to come quickly. Everyone knew of Jesus' miracle working power—power that could heal him. However, Jesus delays his arrival and waits until his friend had died. Finally, amidst the hurt and disappointed of those gathered, He shows up at the funeral.
Lazarus' sisters are full of troubling questions as to why He did not heed their urgent request. Others wondered why Jesus—the miracle worker—hadn't prevented this tragedy. But Jesus knew something they did not know. Jesus knew that he would raise Lazarus back to life in a fashion that would simultaneously show his love for Lazarus and his family; as well as bring Him glory.
What appears to us to be an unanswered prayer is, in reality, a delayed answer. Now, this answer may not have come in the way or at the time we desired, but our God has, nonetheless, answered our prayer.
It has been said that God always answers prayer in one of three ways: "Yes, No, and Wait." So you see, God does answer prayer. Christians often hear God answer "yes" in marvelous ways. They also hear God answer "no" to selfish or misguided requests. And sometimes, of course, Christians hear God say "wait" for delayed answers. We might wish things always went according to our plans, but God is a good and wise parent, and He gives His children what they need, just when they need it.
--Pastor Scott (www.askpastorscott.com)
